Fifty and Furthermore's Blog

My Own Sex And The City Experience

I recently experienced Sex and the City in my own little steaming hot spot.  In a steam room of all places, five women ages 38-44 entered. They asked if I minded if they "man bashed." I said No, as long as I could comment. Their tales were all too familiar and common in a city like DC: The married guy who was staying with his wife for the sake of the children; the never-married guy with money, charm and good manners, but who didn't want to be committed; the "I love you, but I have to travel tons, and I may be moving" guy; the guy who says "I think you are a great catch but I'm already in love with someone else (though I am still playing the field);" the attractive twice-divorced brunette who has become a runaway bride with two broken engagements just before the wedding. You get the picture. These are all accomplished and lovely, attractive women. They are lonely and their self esteem is down the toilet. They claim there are no decent single men, but they haven’t looked outside their own safety zone.  Sound familiar? Ladies, get your rear into good therapy. Learn about yourselves and your own patterns. Date someone who is willing to work on a relationship and learn what it takes.

I know your bed can get cold. I know it can get lonely at times. But ladies, you deserve more than a great roll in the hay (though I know that's fun). And your guys, they deserve more as well. Help them know what they need to do. You will both be better for it. The sex part is easy; the relationship part is not. 

I left that steam room thankful I was no longer young. When it comes to relationships, Saging seems well worthwhile.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE - My Special Phone Seminar Thursday, July 19th

I am delighted to join my friend and colleague Jacqueline Wales for our special touch-your-heart, change your romantic life, telephone seminar this evening, July 19th at 8:00, PM. I’ll give you information, teach you tricks and introduce you to lessons successfully learned by many. I hope to help you learn how to Find The Love You Want.

This is for all you fabulous, but lonely people (as the Beatles once said) who too often wind up alone, watching TV, eating popcorn and pizza in bed on Sunday night. (Sunday nights alone tend to “suck” the most - join us to find out why.)

 

Dating is like shopping. Learn how to be a selective shopper and avoid picking the wrong merchandise. Stop kissing frogs and find your prince or princess now.

 

Dating is like going through apples in a barrel. You learn to dump the rotten ones, take a bite out of those that shine and spit out any that are not to your taste. Remember, all you need is one.

 

When you call in, think about the words TEACHABLE AND EDUCABLE, and ask me all the questions you have. Oh, and that includes questions about sex. I assure you, as a psychologist with over 35 years of experience dealing with dating issues, there’s nothing I haven’t heard before. Over fifty? So what? As we say at FiftyandFurthermore: "Now can be the best time of your life."

 

Learn how my client, Francis, used my tips to find the man of her dreams. Or Bill who turned down everyone he cared about until he realized he was simply afraid to be his wonderful vulnerable, strong self. Jacqueline and I have tons of history and expertise between us. Learn from our complementary skills. You will be in good hands.  Together, we’ll have fun and you’ll find the help you need to GET THE LOVE YOU DESERVE.

For more information about how to join us and tune in: 
Contact info@fearlessfifties.com or Kim@FiftyandFurthermore.com